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If You Have To Do This, They Don't Want To Be With You
Enjoy Another Teaser To This Week’s Dating Advice podcast Episode To listen to the full episode, become an exclusive subscriber. Your $7...

Christan
Feb 9, 20231 min read
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When Should You Give Someone A Second Chance?
I’ve recently started connecting with a guy who I dated for a short time in the summer. He is coming on strong saying things like he...

Christan
Feb 2, 20232 min read
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Free Dating Advice Zoom
If you're single and dating (or thinking about dating again), join us for an informative, light-hearted discussion about the current...

Christan
Feb 1, 20231 min read
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Men Who Lose Interest In Women After Sex
In This Week's Episode: Listen To The Full Length Episode The Idaho 4: We discuss the affidavit and talk about the incel culture &...

Christan
Jan 10, 20231 min read
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Tricks Men Use To Make You Think You're Exclusive
Enjoy a teaser of this week’s Patreon episode. Remember: We post 2 episodes per week - one on Substack and one on Patreon. IN THIS WEEK’S...

Christan
Jan 25, 20221 min read
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Dating Someone Newly Divorced
What are your thoughts about dating a man who is going through a divorce? He was the one who initiated the split and had not been happy...

Christan
Nov 3, 20212 min read
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Why Do We Obsess Over People That Hurt Us?
Why is it so hard to stop thinking about someone that has repeatedly hurt us? Watch the Tik Tok that inspired this post. There are a few...

Christan
Jul 19, 20212 min read
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Do You Miss Your Ex Or Their Drama?
He’s everything my ex wasn’t. He’s consistent, makes plans and tells me how much he enjoys my company without me having to ask. I like...

Christan
Jun 29, 20213 min read
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Beware The Man That Uses You For Emotional Support
Little bit of a long back storey. We met in our early 20’s dated for 4 years on and off never exclusive. We both did some shitty things...

Christan
Jun 16, 20213 min read
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Why Is His Ex Trying To Befriend Her?
So I’ve been dating this guy for about a month and things are great. He respects boundaries I respect boundaries. Wevboth have ...

Christan
May 6, 20211 min read
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Is It Ever Too Late To Find Your Person?
Hi! I ended a 3 1/2 year relationship last November 2020 and I’m still heartbroken. I really thought he was the one. We had dated many...

Christan
Apr 22, 20212 min read
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The Traumatic Effects of A Break-Up
38 years old guy in my hometown found me on tinder as I was temporarily visiting home. I was ready for a hookup but instead he ...

Christan
Mar 20, 20213 min read
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Never Underestimate Your Own Resilience
Intense long distance relationship for four months with a guy I grew up with until we were 16. Then found each other on FB in 2014,...

Christan
Mar 15, 20214 min read
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Why Do People Lie About Wanting A Relationship?
SUBMIT YOUR OWN QUESTION HERE Matched with a guy online both looking for a relationship. Over the course of 2 months we meet 6 times...

Christan
Mar 5, 20213 min read
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Can You Meet The Right Person At The Wrong Time?
I’ve been single for 10 years after an 11 year marriage. My longest relationship was 4 months which was my rebound relationship that I...

Christan
Feb 15, 20213 min read
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How Do You Let Someone Go That Hurt You?
I went back on the dating apps back in September 2020 after eight years of being celibate for 8 years and I matched with this handsome...

Christan
Feb 9, 20213 min read
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Was He Love Bombing Her?
My friend Krissy was dating this guy for about 6-7 months....he love bombed her (red flag but we couldn’t convince her) and only after a...

Christan
Feb 2, 20213 min read
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Why Won't He Call Her His Girlfriend?
I dated someone for 7 months. Exclusive but not bf/gf. Did all the bf/gf things. When asked to become bf/gf he shuts it down. We’ve said...

Christan
Jan 26, 20212 min read
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Was He Cheating Or Just Keeping His Options Open?
I started talking to a guy I knew about two months ago. Everything was going great conversation wise, all of the green flags. Our first...

Christan
Jan 24, 20214 min read
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Some People Just Don't Deserve A Second Chance
Hi. I matched with someone on bumble and we hit it off very well. I waited for about 3 weeks before we exchanged numbers. We exchanged ...

Christan
Jan 20, 20213 min read
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