How To Avoid Wasting Time With People Who Don't Want A Relationship



Hey so I've been talking to this guy for 4 months and yesterday I asked him what his intentions were. I had the conversation with him when we first met but I felt like it was too early then to have that conversation.

When we spoke yesterday about it he told me that it's only been 8 months since his long term relationship ended and that he's not looking to get into a relationship. Which I can respect that because he wants to find himself and build an independent Routine.

But one thing he mentioned in our conversation that stood out to me is that he wanted to continue talking and getting to know one another stating that he might not be ready now but "who knows what will happen within the next couple of months" Do you think what he said was fair and I should wait or should I leave the situation?


I think what he said is perfectly fair. The question is: does it align with your goals and intentions?


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