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Is He Avoidant Or Just Wasting Your Time?




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Nugget #1 - Reader letter

As a cis/het man - I’ll Match with someone, exchange a few fun back and forth communications on the app - which leads to a plan to meet and then I offer my cell# to continue the convo and finalize plans before meeting. I’ve been noticing a number of people don’t want to exchange phone numbers until after meeting and of these people it often doesn’t go beyond that first date. Obviously- First dates go as they go and you say thank you and move on. But I do wonder if I should be seeing this as a personal security issue or as a potential red flag of unavailability?

A woman’s avoidant boyfriend has been running hot and cold. How much longer should she stay on this rollercoaster?

Why are some divorced men swearing off marriage?

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