I met a guy on a dating site. We went on a few dates and I didn’t like him at first. Turns out we have a lot in common. On our 5th date (a month in) we took it all the way and it was amazing. We decided to commit to each other. We see each other almost everyday and he’s super consistent.
Recently I told him I needed to focus on myself more meaning we would need to scale back to seeing each other maybe 3-4 times a week. Our communication about this kinda went left and we both felt misunderstood. We eventually talked it out and it seemed like we’d gotten past it. We were both looking at his phone and turns out the night of the argument he texted three different women. One of the text threads was sexual...
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