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Sometimes the love of your life
is the love of your life.
You'll come to me hoping to find a relationship and leave having found your voice. I'll help you clarify your intentions, triggers and boundaries and teach you how to communicate them in a way that attracts healthy, emotionally available people. I can help you navigate the sometimes murky waters of dating apps and give you advice on how to go old school and meet people "in the wild." No matter what method you try, I will always remind you that being single is a valid (and sometimes preferable) choice.
MASTER ONLINE DATING
Let's talk swiping strategies. Through my 3 online courses I'll help you identify how to make emotionally available and intelligent matches, spot and avoid red flags, and polish your profile to increase your match rate.
Make better matches
Write more effective messages
Learn how to spot the emotionally unavailable time wasters
MASTER ONLINE DATING & AVOID UNAVAILABLE TIME WASTERS
Write a compelling dating profile to attract compatible & emotionally available matches
Tackle common challenges associated with creating an online dating profile
WRITE THE BEST DATING PROFILE EVER (FOR RELATIONSHIP FOCUSED DATERS)
Learn common red flags & safety tips
Uncover the signs you've matched with a scammer
How to spot someone just looking for sex.
RED FLAGS, SAFETY
TIPS & SIGNS OF SCAMMERS
Certified Coach & Dating Behavior Specialist
HI, I'M CHRISTAN
Online dating doesn't have to be so traumatic.
After 10 years of writing the internationally-read dating advice column And That's Why You're Single, I decided to switch gears when realizing how traumatic online dating had become. I spent a year pursuing my coaching certification and now use my education & own personal trauma recovery to help single women navigate the current unpredictable and sometimes volatile dating landscape.
It was refreshing to hear a dating expert who did not think you had to be in a relationship to be happy and fulfilled. Christan’s profile writing, her loving but straightforward approach as well as her ability to spot bs in all forms got me out on some decent dates. I met someone and we have been happily dating each other ever since. I did not know if I was truly looking for a serious relationship, Christan helped me clarify my intentions and then conceptualize what I wanted in a partner. Book coaching with Christan, trust me, her support is invaluable and her work is worth the money."
-Christine, 37, San Diego
SIGNS THEY'RE EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE
One of the most frustrating aspects of dating is investing time and energy in someone who seems interested at first but eventually reveals they’re not looking for anything serious. To help you conserve your energy and protect your emotional well-being I’ve put together some signs to watch out for the next time you swipe right.