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Podcast - Men Can Be Drama Queens, Too
We're talking why men aren't called out more for being gold-diggers or attention whores; why you should never "High Fidelity" your past...

Christan
Feb 20, 20201 min read
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Write A Dating App Bio That Gets You Dates
Anne asks: I’ve been on the Bumble app and the OkCupid all for over seven months and I loathe them. All of my Bumble dates have been...

Christan
Feb 6, 20204 min read
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How To Avoid Dating App Ghosts & Flakes
Laura asks: I'm relatively new to dating apps. Still navigating these waters mostly, but so far my experience seems to be pretty...

Christan
Jan 27, 20207 min read
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The Keys To Getting A Second Date
Missy asks: I'm a attractive, slim, college educated, decent job, well dressed (I.e. feminine not showy) confident and modern woman who...

Christan
Jan 23, 20204 min read
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How To Avoid Dating Burn Out
Terri asks: I find myself having "dating fatigue" and just wondering how you deal with it? I've been actively using dating apps like...

Christan
Jan 15, 20203 min read
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Spot Flakes, Fakes & Scammers - 45 Minutes to Safe Online/Dating App Dating
According to the FTC, close to 21,000 Americans reported they'd be scammed out of almost $142,000,000. That's right. MILLION. Social ...

Christan
Dec 14, 20191 min read
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Get More Dates With Tinder & Bumble
Holiday season is upon us and many singles are hoping to find someone special. If that's you and you've been using dating apps like...

Christan
Dec 11, 20193 min read
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Your Sexual History Is Nobody's Business
Name: Audrey Message: Over a week ago I matched with a guy on Bumble, we’ll call him Conner. We exchanged a few messages and then he...

Christan
Dec 11, 20194 min read
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Should You Tell Someone You've Never Had a Relationship?
I am 28 years old and have a very strange problem: I've never dated more than one or two dates with anyone. The reason for this has...

Christan
Nov 25, 20194 min read
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How Do You Know If You're Settling?
Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Confused Comment: How do you reconcile the need to be attracted to your mate and not lowering your...

Christan
Nov 20, 20195 min read
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Is He Jerking Her Around Or Just a Flake?
Name: Katie Question: I go through phases where I use Tinder fairly actively, and then I get burned out and take breaks and start over....

Christan
Nov 20, 20196 min read
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Are You Dating Mr. Golden Balls?
Name: Staci Comment: I met a guy on Tinder in his 40s who seemed to be well put together. He was a gentleman and very smart and...

Christan
Nov 20, 20193 min read
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So You Dated A Narcissist. Now What?
In many ways, the after-math of a relationship with a narcissist is just if not more damaging than the relationship itself. This is Part...

Christan
Nov 13, 20194 min read
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