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Four Reasons You're Attracting Unavailable Men
A married old flame followed me on Instagram and I’m confused about why. A little backstory. In my freshman year of college, I met a guy...

Christan
Apr 7, 20232 min read
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Dating Online When You're Not Over Your Ex
Just got out of a 10 year marriage, wife left for another man. Confidence is low. Need to get back on the dating scene. How does this...

Christan
May 24, 20225 min read
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Beware The Man That Uses You For Emotional Support
Little bit of a long back storey. We met in our early 20’s dated for 4 years on and off never exclusive. We both did some shitty things...

Christan
Jun 16, 20213 min read
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When Will Her Married Boyfriend Leave His Wife?
I was a married and hooked up with a married man at a mutual friend’s party. No excuse-My husband was ten years older than me and we’d...

Christan
Jun 3, 20214 min read
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How Does She Trust After Her Ex Cheated?
How do you heal trust issues? I never healed the wound of being cheated on in my marriage and feel like I keep assuming the worst with...

Christan
Feb 7, 20211 min read
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Is His Female Best Friend A Threat?
Hi. I’ve been dating a guy for 4 months. We’re both in our mid/late 30s. It seems to be going really well overall. Except one thing. Is...

Christan
Jan 28, 20211 min read
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Was He Cheating Or Just Keeping His Options Open?
I started talking to a guy I knew about two months ago. Everything was going great conversation wise, all of the green flags. Our first...

Christan
Jan 24, 20214 min read
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How To Leave A Toxic Partner
Okay long story short fell for a man who was still in the process of getting a divorce 11/18 well in 2/19 started being FWB and nothing...

Christan
Jan 15, 20213 min read
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Sketchy Boyfriends, Lazy Dating Behavior & Dating A Single Parent
We're talking bare-minimum dating and why so many singles have stopped trying to impress their matches. Plus, a woman writes in worried...

Christan
Dec 30, 20201 min read
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Letting Go When A Marriage Ends
I have a follow up question to the last one about the guy that still had his deceased fiancés engagement ring and his new fiancé selling...

Christan
Nov 3, 20202 min read
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The Other Woman Isn't To Blame Because Your Man Sucks
Medium continues to serve up essays reeking of internalized misogyny with this latest pile of word vomit. Who is the Other Woman? I have...

Christan
Jun 9, 20206 min read
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How To Date After Your Ex Cheated
Maya asks: My last relationship was two years ago which ended by being suddenly dumped and then finding out he'd been cheating on me...

Christan
Jan 9, 20204 min read
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