Don't Stop Believing
I connected with a guy I’ve only spoken to in passing on Instagram after we got chatting in DMs one night back in July, he then perused...
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Christan
- Aug 24
- 3 min
Beware The Man That's Too Honest
What are your thoughts on taking someone back when they didn’t choose you and mistreated you the first time? A man from my past recently...
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Christan
- Jan 25
- 1 min
Tricks Men Use To Make You Think You're Exclusive
Enjoy a teaser of this week’s Patreon episode. Remember: We post 2 episodes per week - one on Substack and one on Patreon. IN THIS WEEK’S...
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Christan
- Jan 11
- 2 min
Let's Stop Letting Men Hurt Our Feelings
Happy 2022! Remember - This is the busiest time of year for online daters! Make sure you’ve got a profile that attracts emotionally ...
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Christan
- Oct 21, 2021
- 4 min
It's What They Do Between Dates That Matters
After 4mons of matching, small talk, me unmatching, and us matching again for the 5th time, this guy asks me for my number and to make...
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Christan
- Oct 14, 2021
- 3 min
What Are Your Online Dating Pet Peeves?
I asked my Instagram followers what their biggest online dating pet peeves were. Here are a few responses and my explanations. People who...
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Christan
- Jan 20, 2021
- 2 min
Why Does Her Ex Stalk Her Instagram?
What’s up with men who you’ve been intimate with that stop talking to you but continue to like all your photos and stories? One guy...
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Christan
- Jan 19, 2021
- 2 min
Why Did He Ghost & Block Her After Sex?
Can you please talk about being ghosted right after sex? I was on several dates with this guy we had a great time and really good...
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Christan
- Jan 4, 2021
- 3 min
How To Bounce Back After Being Ghosted
How do you remain positive and open to dating when you’ve been ghosted so often? It’s hard to ‘get back out there’ when you’ve been...
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Christan
- Jan 2, 2021
- 4 min
Why Is Getting Your Match To Meet Offline So Hard?
Why is it that I can’t find a guy who can actually make and commit to plans?? It’s always “oh yea we’ll do something...” “I’ll think of...
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Christan
- Dec 20, 2020
- 1 min
There's Being Honest And There's Being A Jerk
This guy really thought what he said was appropriate.
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Christan
- Dec 20, 2020
- 1 min
Signs They're Going To Cancel The Date
Is COVID making people more flaky? Let's dig-in.
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Christan
- Nov 24, 2020
- 1 min
First Date Sex & Normalizing Never Having A Relationship
New dating podcast alert! FIRST DATE SEX & EXCHANGING SEX FOR EXCLUSIVITY First up, we discuss a toxic Tik Tok that went viral from a man...
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Christan
- Nov 10, 2020
- 1 min
It's Time To Normalize Loneliness
We need to ditch the stigma attached to loneliness. The stigma is what compels people to return to dating apps when they are vulnerable,...
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Christan
- Oct 25, 2020
- 4 min
Common Reasons People Ghost or Unmatch You
You're messaging with someone on Bumble or OKCupid and then, out of nowhere, they stop responding. Was it something you said? Maybe....
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Christan
- Oct 22, 2020
- 3 min
How To Reject Someone Without Being A Dick
QUESTION #1 What is the best way to let someone down after you've had several good dates, but then realize that you are not a good match...
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Christan
- Oct 5, 2020
- 5 min
How To Succeed At Online Dating
After spending the weekend swiping through Tik Tok and listening to people complain about their bad dates, I started compiling a list of...
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Christan
- Sep 23, 2020
- 3 min
Reasons Your Bumble Match Thinks You're A Creep
And - YES - this applies to men and women. I met a nice guy seemingly online. He is professional, smart, good looking. But he keeps...
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Christan
- Sep 15, 2020
- 5 min
Why You NEVER Ask Someone Why They Dumped You
There I was, innocently sipping my iced coffee, my gorgeous pitt bull snoring at my feet, when I saw this headline. She Ended Things...
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