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How To Reject Someone Without Being A Dick




QUESTION #1

What is the best way to let someone down after you've had several good dates, but then realize that you are not a good match - no chemistry, different goals...


When rejecting someone, diplomacy is key. You don't need to be specific. In fact, I advise against it. All you need to do is send them a text or email and say, "I've really enjoyed getting to know you, but I'm not feeling what I need to feel to continue dating you. I wish you the best."