So my best friend and I have been inseparable for the past year. We have both tried dating/ sleeping with other people. Nothing makes it far. He says that I’m too important to risk losing and if we tries to date it would risks losing one another bc neither of us tend to do well in relationships. I’m just so lost. If he told me I wasn’t attractive to him it wouldn’t be a big deal. But that’s never the reason. It’s always “you have no idea how important you are” is it possible to be in love with someone and refuse to act on it from fear?
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