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How Do Men Know If A Woman Is Relationship Material?

That's a trick question. Who cares what they think? Are men simply able to assess a potential relationship or lack thereof faster than I...

This Might Be Why You Keep Dating The Wrong People

I have figured out the “he’s not into you” and other things to try to better myself. I problem is this. Why can’t I attract a viable...

Don't Fall Prey To The Tinder Tourist Trap

Hey, I need advice! I met up with a guy from tinder, had an awesome night, was intimate with him, now coming down from it, the usual....

The Great Coffee Date Debate

This post isn’t about the pros and cons of coffee dates. Personally, I think they’re uninspired, lazy and often used as a test by a lot...

Should You Reject Someone For Being Financially Unstable?

When dating, is it ok for stand my ground and want a man who is on my level financially at least? Not someone who thinks he can upgrade...

Is His Female Best Friend A Threat?

Hi. I’ve been dating a guy for 4 months. We’re both in our mid/late 30s. It seems to be going really well overall. Except one thing. Is...

Is Dating Easier If You're Thin & Hot?

I really enjoy your website and your straightforward advice on dating. I’ve read so many of your readers unfortunate experiences when it...

How Come She Only Meets Unavailable Men?

The operative word here is "seem." You "seem" to exclusively attract unavailable men. Only in the case of men in relationships can you...