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Social Distance Dating Tips
I was messaging with a guy from Match.com. I asked him if he wanted to do a video chat later that afternoon or the next day. Crickets. ...

Christan
Jun 28, 20205 min read
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Delete These Phrases From Your Dating Profile ASAP!
Since a big chunk of my job involves giving dating advice and reviewing people's dating profiles, I thought I'd put together a little...

Christan
Jun 24, 20203 min read
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How Come She Only Meets Unavailable Men?
The operative word here is "seem." You "seem" to exclusively attract unavailable men. Only in the case of men in relationships can you...

Christan
Jun 22, 20203 min read
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How To Make Dating Apps Suck Less
In a recent online discussion group I moderated, someone asked, "Once you match with someone, how do you keep the conversation from...

Christan
Jun 14, 20204 min read
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Did He Find Someone Else Or Is He Just A Flake?
Hello. I recently had 2 dates with a guy who initiated contact on a dating app, he seemed really nice, interesting, and very interested...

Christan
Jun 12, 20203 min read
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How Do You Get Your Matches To Meet Offline?
From last week's Ask & Answer online session - (Attend the next one - RSVP here) I get matches on Tinder and Coffee Meets Bagel but all...

Christan
Jun 8, 20202 min read
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Do Dealbreakers & Disclaimers Belong In Dating Profiles?
Here's my question: I really don't want to date someone with children, and I'm not sure if I should say that in my profile (also, I'm...

Christan
May 28, 20205 min read
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How Do You Date When You Don't Know What You Want?
I met a guy through online speed dating and we were a match. He emailed me and asked if we could speak on the phone. During our...

Christan
May 22, 20203 min read
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How To Get More Messages On Dating Apps
So many of these people seem to say the same things. What should I look for to find someone who is more authentic/honest? Also, I tend...

Christan
May 20, 20203 min read
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The Uncomfortable Truth Many Singles Don't Want To Hear
Ok Cupid says I have over 700 likes. Yet, none seem to have a paid membership where they can send me a message. They do send me profiles...

Christan
May 14, 20204 min read
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Write Messages That Get You Dates
I mention a lot of things in my Tinder profile. I mention my work in trauma recovery; my dog walking, my love of yoga and wine. I even...

Christan
Apr 26, 20203 min read
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Dating Profile/Photo/Bio Writing & Review Online Workshop
MONDAY, APR 13 - 7PM $20 - Admission includes online discussion and e-guides about Mastering Dating Apps & Identifying Red Flags and...

Christan
Apr 1, 20202 min read
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Is He a Flake Or a Scammer?
I've had a lot of bad online dating experiences and I'd be grateful for a perspective specific to them. I am a little picky about who I...

Christan
Apr 1, 20204 min read
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Avoid The First Date Flake
By all accounts, Emma is a catch. She’s funny, kind, and attractive. She works a job she loves and is described by many as a social...

Christan
Mar 4, 20206 min read
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How To Stop Creepy Dating App Sex Talk
Maureen asks: I'm beginning to look at dating five years ago as "the heyday of on online dating". Back then, people were mostly actually...

Christan
Mar 1, 20204 min read
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The #1 Reason You're Not Getting Dates With Dating Apps
I'm no stranger to dating apps and know it's best to keep general expectations low, especially when it comes to manners, but something...

Christan
Feb 27, 20204 min read
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Why Do Women Keep Dumping Him?
Jay asks: I want to discuss a trend that I have noticed recently. I'll start with an actual example. First off (for background), I am...

Christan
Feb 23, 20204 min read
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Podcast - Sex Cults, Performative White Feminism, Tinder Triggers & Obsessed Exes
We're talking sex cults, obsessed exes, performative white feminism and no-sex ghosting. Also discussed are my Tinder-triggered panic...

Christan
Feb 12, 20201 min read
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Why Did He Suddenly Blow Her Off?
Bella asks: I've been dating this guy for a few weeks (our last date was Saturday - our fifth date) and wanted to get your perspective...

Christan
Feb 11, 20203 min read
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Write A Dating App Bio That Gets You Dates
Anne asks: I’ve been on the Bumble app and the OkCupid all for over seven months and I loathe them. All of my Bumble dates have been...

Christan
Feb 6, 20204 min read
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