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Christan
- Sep 27, 2020
- 4 min
Are You Single Because You're Shallow?
I have been on dating sites for years and, I find mostly the regular person with average interests and, I have had relationships with ...
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Christan
- Sep 23, 2020
- 3 min
Reasons Your Bumble Match Thinks You're A Creep
And - YES - this applies to men and women. I met a nice guy seemingly online. He is professional, smart, good looking. But he keeps...
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Christan
- Sep 20, 2020
- 1 min
Podcast - Smug Couples, Awkward Break-Ups & Answers For That "Why Are You Single?" Question
A reader asks what she should do about being uninvited to events because she's single. Sarah and I also parse an essay by a man weirdly...
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Christan
- Sep 13, 2020
- 1 min
Podcast - Dating Leagues, Tinder Narcissists & Friends With Benefits
This one's about figuring out your dating league and when to shoot out of it. We also talk about the dangers of dating a narcissist....
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Christan
- Aug 27, 2020
- 1 min
Dateology Podcast - Sexting, Marathon Dates & Red Flags Never To Ignore
We're talking why women settle for casual sex, the dangers of marathon dates and red flags we often ignore. Sexting after marathon date...
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Christan
- Aug 24, 2020
- 5 min
Why Do So Many Women Settle For Friends With Benefits?
Here's an interesting Reddit post I thought would make for a good discussion. I read this subreddit regularly and a large percent of the...
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Christan
- Aug 11, 2020
- 3 min
The #1 Sign They're Just Looking For Sex
In my dating profile I say I'm looking for a long-term relationship but I still get emails from guys only looking to hook-up. How do I...
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Christan
- Aug 6, 2020
- 1 min
Awkward First Dates, Aging & Dating Younger Men
Why do people have to ruin a perfectly good Zoom date by being creepy? Get tips on how to navigate those awkward on and offline date...
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Christan
- Aug 2, 2020
- 4 min
Let's Talk Awkward Zoom Dates
Question: Matched with a guy on Hinge. We set up a time to chat on Zoom. Not five minutes after he shows up than he starts to get...
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Christan
- Jul 30, 2020
- 1 min
Dateology - Safe Sex In 2020
Safe sex takes on a whole new meaning in 2020. Is there any point to dating during the pandemic? What about sex? Should singles fly solo...
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Christan
- Jul 27, 2020
- 5 min
Sex And The City: COVID Edition
Hi Christan, You may remember me from a few months back. I was on one of your dating profile workshops and then participated on a...
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Christan
- Jul 22, 2020
- 4 min
How Do You Find A Relationship If You've Never Had One?
I'm at the risk of becoming a 40-Year Old Virgin in a few years. My dating history is non-existant, and even in date settings I have...
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Christan
- Jun 9, 2020
- 6 min
The Other Woman Isn't To Blame Because Your Man Sucks
Medium continues to serve up essays reeking of internalized misogyny with this latest pile of word vomit. Who is the Other Woman? I have...
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Christan
- May 22, 2020
- 3 min
How Do You Date When You Don't Know What You Want?
I met a guy through online speed dating and we were a match. He emailed me and asked if we could speak on the phone. During our...
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Christan
- May 14, 2020
- 4 min
The Uncomfortable Truth Many Singles Don't Want To Hear
Ok Cupid says I have over 700 likes. Yet, none seem to have a paid membership where they can send me a message. They do send me profiles...
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Christan
- Apr 12, 2020
- 3 min
Are Dating Apps Full of Men Just Looking For Sex?
Hi, prior to the virus pandemic I explored online dating without success. I have encountered that the quality of men on these sites is...
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Christan
- Mar 21, 2020
- 1 min
Podcast - Men With Madonna/Dinner Whore Complex
Ugh. First up, we talk about how one vindictive man tried to ruin the life of a female professor by falsely accusing her of sexual...
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Christan
- Mar 17, 2020
- 3 min
Why Do Women Sleep With Other Men But Not Him?
Kevin asks: I have met 40-year-old women who are tentative about kissing after dinner or drinks at my place on the second or third (!)...
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Christan
- Mar 1, 2020
- 4 min
How To Stop Creepy Dating App Sex Talk
Maureen asks: I'm beginning to look at dating five years ago as "the heyday of on online dating". Back then, people were mostly actually...
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