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Men Only Agree To Be Exclusive When It's Convenient For Them
Have known a guy (A) for years in which we get together occasionally. When I see him it’s lovely, warm, and safe. I also Occasionally...

Christan
Jan 20, 20233 min read
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How To Keep It Casual If He Says He Doesn't Want A Relationship
What are some talks/actions to avoid if you are dating someone casually? I would like to know what would muddy the waters. The key to...

Christan
Jul 14, 20221 min read
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Don't Fall Prey To The Tinder Tourist Trap
Hey, I need advice! I met up with a guy from tinder, had an awesome night, was intimate with him, now coming down from it, the usual....

Christan
Nov 17, 20213 min read
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Does Her Guy Friend Want To Date Her?
I was talking to this guy. Very flirty for months. One day he tells me he went away for the weekend with a girl, very romantic. ...

Christan
Feb 1, 20211 min read
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Was She Just His COVID Girlfriend?
Hi! I saw this guy for 10 months and it went slow. And it seemed to be building into more and more . And than 2 months ago he blew off...

Christan
Jan 31, 20213 min read
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There's Being Honest And There's Being A Jerk
This guy really thought what he said was appropriate.

Christan
Dec 20, 20201 min read
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Has Online Dating Become Toxic?
We dig in to the groundswell of negativity towards online dating that's spreading across the internet. Has COVID made it worse? Are men ...

Christan
Dec 18, 20201 min read
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Check Out Our Master Online Dating Online Courses
For the past few months, I've been working on two online versions of the dating workshops I've been holding via Zoom. I'm excited to...

Christan
Dec 1, 20201 min read
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If You Don't Do Hookups Then Don't Hookup.
Here's a Reddit post we address on this week's Dateology Podcast. TL;DR: guy who had no intention of dating me misled me and...

Christan
Nov 15, 20202 min read
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Common Reasons People Ghost or Unmatch You
You're messaging with someone on Bumble or OKCupid and then, out of nowhere, they stop responding. Was it something you said? Maybe....

Christan
Oct 25, 20204 min read
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How To Reject Someone Without Being A Dick
QUESTION #1 What is the best way to let someone down after you've had several good dates, but then realize that you are not a good match...

Christan
Oct 22, 20203 min read
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How To Succeed At Online Dating
After spending the weekend swiping through Tik Tok and listening to people complain about their bad dates, I started compiling a list of...

Christan
Oct 5, 20205 min read
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Podcast - Smug Couples, Awkward Break-Ups & Answers For That "Why Are You Single?" Question
A reader asks what she should do about being uninvited to events because she's single. Sarah and I also parse an essay by a man weirdly...

Christan
Sep 20, 20201 min read
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The Stigma Of Being Over 40 & Never Married
Hi there. As I get older, I am becoming more insecure in the dating scene. I'd like to have a family one day, but men seem to think...

Christan
Aug 31, 20204 min read
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Why Do So Many Women Settle For Friends With Benefits?
Here's an interesting Reddit post I thought would make for a good discussion. I read this subreddit regularly and a large percent of the...

Christan
Aug 24, 20205 min read
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Are You Someone's Dirty Little Secret?
An article in Refinery29 UK covers the latest dating phenomenon - stashing. If you're like me, you just stopped and asked yourself, "What...

Christan
Aug 9, 20204 min read
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