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Beware The First Date Future Faker
I matched with a guy and we had our first date which went well until he started getting very touchy. He asked if he could come home...

Christan
Sep 10, 20214 min read
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Why Men Lose Interest After Sex
SPOT EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE MATCHES BEFORE YOU SWIPE Don’t forget - Tuesday Aug 24th - Master Online Dating Zoom Workshop. This is for...

Christan
Aug 19, 20211 min read
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It's a F*ck That Guy Extravaganza!
We might have to come up with a new catch phrase after this episode. A woman writes in asking how she can get her boyfriend to stop...

Christan
Aug 15, 20211 min read
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Big Little Bonus Podcast Episode: F*ck That Guy Edition
SUBSCRIBE TO MY SUBSTACK NEWSLETTER TO LISTEN TO THE PODCAST We saved the best letter for this week’s Substack podcast. See letter below....

Christan
Aug 2, 20212 min read
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Signs They're Emotionally Unavailable
What are easy to detect signs that someone is emotionally unavailable ? You can get a good list of signs here. The one I’d like to focus...

Christan
Jul 27, 20212 min read
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Why Did Her E-Boyfriend Lose Interest?
I met a man on Facebook dating Fall 2019..he got my attention by being consistent with his communication..so we exchanged phone numbers...

Christan
Jul 16, 20212 min read
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Is Your Crush Actually A Crutch?
Im in love with my friend. Some days we’ll talk on the phone for HOURS. We talk almost every day & are so close it is like we can read...

Christan
Jul 1, 20211 min read
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Beware The Man That Uses You For Emotional Support
Little bit of a long back storey. We met in our early 20’s dated for 4 years on and off never exclusive. We both did some shitty things...

Christan
Jun 16, 20213 min read
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When Will Her Married Boyfriend Leave His Wife?
I was a married and hooked up with a married man at a mutual friend’s party. No excuse-My husband was ten years older than me and we’d...

Christan
Jun 3, 20214 min read
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Beware The Emotional Arsonist
I do a little admin work for the man I’m dating and have access to his email account. He told me he is good friends with his ex (as he...

Christan
May 31, 20213 min read
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What Do You Do When You Catch Your Match In A Lie?
I just started talking to a guy through a dating app and we moved to texting (my choice). We have really great convo and it’s even...

Christan
May 11, 20213 min read
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Why Is His Ex Trying To Befriend Her?
So I’ve been dating this guy for about a month and things are great. He respects boundaries I respect boundaries. Wevboth have ...

Christan
May 6, 20211 min read
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Why They'll Sleep With You But Not Date You
Never in my life have I spent time, conversation, and physical affection on someone I wasn’t interested in. The fact that men can enjoy ...

Christan
Apr 30, 20211 min read
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Tik Tok Dating, F*ckboy Tests & Why Some Men Don't Rush Sex
We’re doing a speed round Q & A this includes: Why you should avoid those single dudes on Tik Tok Why won’t he tell her how he feels?*...

Christan
Apr 23, 20211 min read
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What's Really Behind Those "Instant Connections" You Feel On First Dates
An ex-boyfriend has reached out to me after breaking up 5 months ago. I agreed to talk with him and he very blatantly asked for a ...

Christan
Apr 15, 20211 min read
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Is Her Partner A Love Addict?
I’ve been dating someone for a month and half—we met via Instagram and have mutual IRL friends so it felt a little safer and more ...

Christan
Apr 9, 20214 min read
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Why Some Men Ghost After Sex
A reader recently sent me a message asking me what I thought of this Tik Tok. In the video, podcast host Joe Rogan and his guest discuss...

Christan
Apr 3, 20211 min read
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Cringey Comments In Men's Dating Profiles
Sick of meeting scammers and flakes on Bumble? Tired of mixed messages from your matches? Check out my Master Online Dating course...

Christan
Mar 22, 20211 min read
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Beware The Man That's Too Available
SUBMIT YOUR OWN QUESTION HERE I met a new guy online. We FaceTimed on a Thursday, had first date Saturday, second Sunday and third...

Christan
Mar 10, 20213 min read
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The Toxic Male BFF
So my best friend and I have been inseparable for the past year. We have both tried dating/ sleeping with other people. Nothing makes...

Christan
Feb 23, 20211 min read
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